The below is a pretty common type of conversation with my wife: Me: “It feels like your level of engagement has changed quite a bit from last week.” Her: “What specifically are you talking about? I have a lot that I need to be paying attention to at the moment.” Me: “Nothing specific. I was […]
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I’m a woman who is learning why I write novel length texts to my man. It’s because I am feeling extreme anxiety that I will be abandon, so I have a panicking need for reassurance and validation. I send lengthy texts to make sure I’m not misunderstood. I’m starting to realize how overwhelming and annoying
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Step 1: Identify The Disagreement: Instead of clearly stating what happened objectively; identify your partner as the cause of the problem and deny any responsibility for the disagreement happening. Denying Responsibility Example: “My partner is… {describe how your partner is wrong so that’s why the disagreement is happening since you don’t agree with their wrongness}.”
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