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I have known this guy for a month now. We have been on about 3 dates a week. But suddenly he isn’t initiating any more dates. How many days should I wait before reaching out to him, but not too soon where I will come across as being too pushy? Many men in today’s society… Read more: How Do I Ask Him for Another Date Without Being Pushy?

Hey! I have a question. I can’t determine if the guy likes me or not. How many dates should he be taking me on if he likes me? If any guy is consistently asking you out on dates, then he is enjoying your company and is wanting to get to know you more. However, the… Read more: How Many Dates Should We Be Having?

I can’t get past the first date with women. I often hear “you’re a nice guy but I don’t feel a connection”. You know that saying “nice guys finish last”? That’s definitely true in my experience! Why don’t women want the nice guys!? It makes no sense!? Generally speaking, “nice guys” are challenging for a… Read more: Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

I met up with a girl for a first date the other night. Nothing fancy, we were just meeting around sunset time near my house to go to a little beach access and hangout, but she got a bit lost and by the time she found the spot it was 20 minutes later. We just… Read more: The First Date with Her was Great, but No Response for 2nd Date. Why?

What are your thoughts on sleeping with each other on the first date (after the first time meeting in person). I talked to this guy for a week before we met up. We had amazing sex that night. He spent the night & we did it again in the morning. I didn’t hear from him… Read more: Should I Have Sex with Him on the First Date?

The below is a pretty common type of conversation with my wife: Me: “It feels like your level of engagement has changed quite a bit from last week.” Her: “What specifically are you talking about? I have a lot that I need to be paying attention to at the moment.” Me: “Nothing specific. I was… Read more: I’m a Nice Guy but My Wife Rejects Me

I have matched with a man on a dating site and we are exchanging pics. I find him very attractive. How do I express my attraction to him? What do guys like to be called? Cutie, sexy, handsome? Men don’t care about one word compliments that could be said to any other man. Men care… Read more: How to Express Attraction to a Man?

I feel so empty. I feel like I’m starving for connection in my relationship. I am wondering if I’m falling out of love with him. Do you feel that lack of attention can cause you to fall out of love with someone? I don’t have enough information to provide clarity for your particular relationship, but… Read more: Am I Still in Love with Him?

My woman was mad at me for replying late. When I finally replied, she said: “Get lost.” So I didn’t text her again. The entire day went by and I didn’t text her again since she asked for space, despite missing her. And now I’m in trouble again for giving her space. She said: “Wow,… Read more: Why Can’t My Woman be Direct & Clear?

My boyfriend says ‘Love you.’ but he never says ‘I love you.’ Do you see a difference between ‘Love you’ and ‘I love you’? The question you’re actually trying to ask is: ‘Does he love me?’. The five love languages are: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. These… Read more: Does He Love Me?

My boyfriend said he will never get married to me or anyone else. But he wants to have kids with me. He’s parents got divorced when he was a child. I am basically doing what a wife does like cooking, cleaning etc. I told him getting married makes me feel secured and valued. But he… Read more: He Wants Kids but Doesn’t Want Marriage

I’m a woman who is learning why I write novel length texts to my man. It’s because I am feeling extreme anxiety that I will be abandon, so I have a panicking need for reassurance and validation. I send lengthy texts to make sure I’m not misunderstood. I’m starting to realize how overwhelming and annoying… Read more: Long Lengthy Texts Don’t Work to Get Needs Met

Step 1: Identify The Disagreement: Instead of clearly stating what happened objectively; identify your partner as the cause of the problem and deny any responsibility for the disagreement happening. Denying Responsibility Example: “My partner is… {describe how your partner is wrong so that’s why the disagreement is happening since you don’t agree with their wrongness}.”… Read more: How NOT to Have A Fulfilling Enlightened Relationship