Am I Still in Love with Him? - Couples Enlightenment

I feel so empty. I feel like I’m starving for connection in my relationship. I am wondering if I’m falling out of love with him.

Do you feel that lack of attention can cause you to fall out of love with someone?

I don’t have enough information to provide clarity for your particular relationship, but you do need to communicate your feelings and needs, and your partner must be interested in considering your feelings and needs, if the relationship is to survive.

Generally speaking, love is a verb; and because it’s a verb, you must show and express your love daily to each other. Love is a choice that you keep choosing every day, thus love needs continuous maintenance to grow and deepen. A plant will die without water, sun, and a nurturing environment. Love is no different from a physical need. What you give your attention grows. Love is not a noun. When it comes to romantic relationships, love isn’t just there, as a given, without any actions or behaviors that keep the love alive.